The values you live by aren't actually yours.

AWAKEN THE CREATRIX: Day 2 - Stripped of Illusions

That’s right, my darling. Some of the values you live by aren’t actually yours.

I know.. Huh? How could that be?

Well consider this. What if the things you think you value—the ones shaping your creative flow, your choices, and even your body—are just borrowed beliefs, designed to keep you acceptable, good, and (supposedly) safe… rather than honest, in tune, attuned with the flow of life within you?

This confusion of values can be one of the biggest hindrances to creativity. Because your values, conscious or not, dictate how you use your energy.

So, let’s strip it down and reveal what your inner Creatrix truly values. Because baby, THEREIN LIES YOUR POWER.

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Step 1: Identify the False Values You’ve Been Living By

There are no “right” or “wrong” values—only what is true for you in this moment. What you valued last year may not be what you value now, and that is part of your evolution as a creatrix. The goal isn’t to judge yourself, but to notice. To see where your energy naturally wants to go when you’re not trying to fit into a mold.

False values are often rooted in the “Good Girl” Archetype—the part of you that believes you must be a certain way to be loved, accepted, or seen as worthy or valuable. These are illusory constructs of the mind designed at some point in life to keep you “safe,” but which are no longer useful.

Now, these illusions function only to keep you separate from your true nature, which is love itself.

The simplest way to create space for your true nature to emerge is to start noticing how your actions reveal your false values. Remember, a lot of this is unconscious, but looking at how you operate you can start to unravel the invisible threads.

So look at your life, and ask yourself questions like:

• Do I think I value a big audience, but actually crave deep, intimate creative connections?

• Do I think I value constant productivity, but actually desire depth and intentionality in my work?

• Do I think I value a certain body type or lifestyle, but actually want to feel nourished, alive, and at home in myself?

The friction you feel between who you think you need to be and who you actually are is a portal. Pay attention to it. This discomfort is an invitation to choose again, to align with truth over illusion.

Step 2: Feel What Comes Up

Unraveling false values can trigger deep emotions. You might feel:

• Shame

• Guilt

• Frustration

• Anger

These emotions are not the truth of who you are—they are passing waves, remnants of fear-based conditioning. Instead of pushing them away, let them move through you:

• Cry.

• Write.

• Punch a pillow.

• Scream.

• Dance.

Throw a tantrum if you must. Get melodramatic. Wail like Taylor Swift in the midst of her worst breakup ever. And then — watch how quickly the storm shifts when you let it move through you instead of keeping it trapped inside.

Your body will tell you what it needs. Listen.

Step 3: Write Down What You Actually Value

As the emotional waves settle, take time to investigate what’s truly important to you. Journal on:

• What do I actually value?

• Where have I been living according to false values?

• What changes—big or small—can I make to live in alignment with my real values?

Your true values are always rooted in love, not fear. Love for your creativity, your truth, your joy, your pleasure, your ALIVENESS. Love for the ways your spirit naturally wants to express itself.

Write these new values down and make them VISIBLE in more than one place—a note on your phone, a post-it on your mirror, written in gold and placed ceremonially on your desk. Let them be daily reminders of the life and creative practice you are consciously choosing.

Step 4: Align Your Actions with Your True Values

Change happens in the doing. You practiced your old belief system was practiced thousands, maybe millions, of times. Undoing it takes deliberate repetition.

Each time you make a choice that aligns with your real values, you rewrite your internal script. This is your way of creating a conscious shift from a fear-based to love-based perceptive system.

A few examples:

• If you value deep connection, focus on nurturing your core audience rather than chasing virality.

• If you value the slow drip of deep creativity, slow down instead of forcing output.

• If you value embodied pleasure, move in ways that feel nourishing rather than copying what you see others doing to serve an external ideal.

Your Invitation

There is no single set of “correct” values, nor is there a single “correct” way to live in alignment with your values. This is a practice, an experiment, an ongoing love affair with your own becoming. It is a process of discovery, through and through. The only thing required is your willingness to see, to feel, and to choose again and again in accordance with Love.

Don’t just read this and nod along. We both know that won’t get you anywhere. Grab a journal, your notes app, or a lipstick to scrawl on your mirror—whatever works. Write it down baby. Make it real. Make it yours. Make it CLEAR.

Clarity, you know, is where truth begins. Claim it so, magic one.

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