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Everything about this is true- and I’m a surfer so I can tell you your metaphor is spot on. The hitachi orgasm isn’t even being in the ocean; it’s throwing a bucket of water in a thirsty girl’s face. Even the variety of waves similar to the variety of orgasms is accurate (though going backwards over the lip and getting crushed by the water is like when you’re on the verge of coming and he suddenly finishes). Great stuff.

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Omg, throwing a bucket of water in a thirsty girl's face. I'm dying 💀 I'm so glad the metaphor hits for an actual surfer, and I appreciate you adding to it. Going backwards over the lip, oof, that's visceral. So glad you stopped by, Amelia

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I’m soooo not a surfer, but I still enjoyed the analogy. More than anything though, I resonate with the idea of the sexual as spiritual, a doorway to the divine. And the need for bringing some of that charged, glowing energy into everything we do, every connection we make. Living with soul. Thanks, Faye, for saying the things I feel too, but in the raunchiest, funniest, most entertaining, and visceral way.❤️

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YES to all of this. Living with soul is the perfect way to put it. And thank YOU, Nida, for being a glowing reflection. Eeep I feel honored that you call my writing raunchy and funny and visceral - this is the most soul filling feedback i could receive 😹 it was great fun playing with a different tone in this piece, and your words are encouraging me to keep going with it ❤️ As always, so much love for you, lady.

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18 hrs ago·edited 18 hrs agoLiked by Faye Boam

I enjoyed reading. Thank you. We practice natural family planning. No Phama involved. This taught me to always put my Goddess first in the bedroom. My partner did all the charts and temp to follow her cycles. Even taught others. I became an expert in the viscosity(the vaginal secretion becomes viscous when fertile) test to tell if she was fertile. We always wanted more during fertility. I also think both of us not using any pharmaceutical helps. I am a farmer so I Loved the connection with my work and the Land helping feed the world. Being a surfer I think you nailed it. For me the longer the for play the greater the experience is for both.

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Thanks for stopping by Allan, glad you enjoyed the piece and were inspired to share your own experience. Sounds like you and your partner are doing important work.

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There’s so much goodness here! But the way I laughed out loud at certain lines 🙌😜

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Thank you my friend, I'm so glad you enjoyed it. 🍯 I've been working on bringing more humor and lightness to my pieces, and knowing that this made you laugh out loud brings a huge smile to my face.

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“the erotic is profoundly unproductive.” Oh yesssss♥️👏

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You know it, sensual woman ;) ♥️

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