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Everything about this is true- and I’m a surfer so I can tell you your metaphor is spot on. The hitachi orgasm isn’t even being in the ocean; it’s throwing a bucket of water in a thirsty girl’s face. Even the variety of waves similar to the variety of orgasms is accurate (though going backwards over the lip and getting crushed by the water is like when you’re on the verge of coming and he suddenly finishes). Great stuff.

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Omg, throwing a bucket of water in a thirsty girl's face. I'm dying 💀 I'm so glad the metaphor hits for an actual surfer, and I appreciate you adding to it. Going backwards over the lip, oof, that's visceral. So glad you stopped by, Amelia

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I’m soooo not a surfer, but I still enjoyed the analogy. More than anything though, I resonate with the idea of the sexual as spiritual, a doorway to the divine. And the need for bringing some of that charged, glowing energy into everything we do, every connection we make. Living with soul. Thanks, Faye, for saying the things I feel too, but in the raunchiest, funniest, most entertaining, and visceral way.❤️

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YES to all of this. Living with soul is the perfect way to put it. And thank YOU, Nida, for being a glowing reflection. Eeep I feel honored that you call my writing raunchy and funny and visceral - this is the most soul filling feedback i could receive 😹 it was great fun playing with a different tone in this piece, and your words are encouraging me to keep going with it ❤️ As always, so much love for you, lady.

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There’s so much goodness here! But the way I laughed out loud at certain lines 🙌😜

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Thank you my friend, I'm so glad you enjoyed it. 🍯 I've been working on bringing more humor and lightness to my pieces, and knowing that this made you laugh out loud brings a huge smile to my face.

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“the erotic is profoundly unproductive.” Oh yesssss♥️👏

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You know it, sensual woman ;) ♥️

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I loved reading this! Wasn’t sure at first because I am older and have never used any tools really. I don’t like plastic. But love the way your brought in the spiritual and the ocean! Thanks. I think when I was younger sure I craved the physical sensations but it was always more mental for me

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I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Holly. Yes, I think coming to appreciate the subtler aspects of sexuality and eroticism just takes time and practice and desire to experience something deeper. I have always experience the physical to be a gateway to the metaphysical - without the lived experience, how can you know? I think the spiritual is alive in every cell of our physical bodies, animating our every move. Sometimes we let ourselves feel it, sometimes we back away from the intensity and try to direct the show the way we think it's supposed to go. And that's the big thing, I think, is letting ourselves feel the mysterious intensity of true connection, when our bodies are completely alive with spirit. I think it's mental in the sense that it requires a more open mind, allowing for curiosity - that then begets more fulfilling physical experiences.

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This is a fantastic piece, Faye!!

I love being a witness to the way you express your humour, playfulness, sensitivity, and wisdom with words that ring so true to me. I'm so so grateful to receive what you have to offer, my beautiful Goddess sister. 🔥🙏❤️

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Thank you so much, Jac You make me feel seen, heard, and understood - there is no greater gift I could ask for. I'm so so grateful to be able to share all the things with you, my sweet lady of fire ❤️‍🔥🩵🍯

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Sighhhhh....there really is no greater gift. Being seen and held and loved. BIG HUGS, for you my dancing sister!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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I had to send money because "you are awesomeness itself".

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Do you think I should go around introducing myself to people that way? Probably not, right? Might be kinda intimidating. Though if I get the comment printed on a shirt maybe the reception would be better?

Oh my. Thank you Wes, I am beyond grateful and humbled.

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You should print it up and then sell it. If any pissants have a problem, well there are so many places they can go other than here, being jealous of your awesomeness. When you put yourself out there, as you have done, and take the risks you take, you deserve that title. Lady Awesome, Madam Awesomeness. Every single person that does something new and incredible is always looked at with suspicion, jealousy. Keep on keeping on. Sincerely, yer fan, Wes

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Good thing my ego doesn't inflate so easily. Earlier in life I did let the jealous pissants and their problems with my expression get the best of me. But the disconnection and depression of those experiences helped me realize the risk was all worth it. Gosh Wes, now I feel supercharged. Thank you, always

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Seconded!!

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I enjoyed reading. Thank you. We practice natural family planning. No Phama involved. This taught me to always put my Goddess first in the bedroom. My partner did all the charts and temp to follow her cycles. Even taught others. I became an expert in the viscosity(the vaginal secretion becomes viscous when fertile) test to tell if she was fertile. We always wanted more during fertility. I also think both of us not using any pharmaceutical helps. I am a farmer so I Loved the connection with my work and the Land helping feed the world. Being a surfer I think you nailed it. For me the longer the for play the greater the experience is for both.

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Thanks for stopping by Allan, glad you enjoyed the piece and were inspired to share your own experience. Sounds like you and your partner are doing important work.

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Deep enough to read twice!! And accurate enough to change your outlook!!❤️

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damn girl you makin' me blush. Seriously though thank you!! IYKYK, but I'm hoping to help more people be in the know. ya know?

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This was phenomenal, thank you!

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who knew!? time to change that I think

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